This paper explores urbanity as a confluence – a meeting point where mobility lines intersect, producing encounters, disruptions, and negotiations of difference. Through a one-year ethnographic study, including in-depth interviews and participant observations in Slovenia, it examines how urbanity is enacted through mobility practices and fleeting encounters with strangers in spaces such as train stations, ride-shares, and pedestrian zones. Engaging with queer phenomenology, mobility theory, and public space scholarship, the study rethinks urbanity as a product of movement rather than fixed geography. The research reveals that urban spaces emerge when mobility environments – places where mobility flows interconnect – create opportunities for hospitality, contestation, and re-orientation. This perspective challenges static understandings of the urban-rural binary by demonstrating how mobilities shape perceptions of space, identity, and belonging. The paper argues that queer mobilities, often defined by the absence of a fixed destination, reconfigure spatial experiences and social interactions, generating new confluences of meaning and possibility. By foregrounding mobility as both a material and affective force, this work contributes to debates on the relational production of urbanity, the politics of movement, and the spatialities of queerness.